Ah. The beautiful gift of 2018 Angie who is taking professional advice and not assigning her peer work tasks. It's truly magnificent to realize I do NOT have to be the assigner of workload. I don't have to assign tasks. Infact the direct quote was, "Stop assigning her tasks. It is not your place." I just make a list and distribute the list to one half of my dynamic duo and inform the other half. The list receiver assigns and the other half agrees. It is so beautiful.
Earlier today I thanked the completer of the task assignment. Said completer let me know that I could ASK for help. And do you know what I heard? Would you like to guess? I will give you a clue -- a dozen or so other times, I have been the recipient of snark, defensive body language and the list goes on. Soooo no, I am not going to "ask" you to pull your weight. Infact all I heard inside my pretty little head, "DON'T FALL FOR IT!!! IT'S A TRAP!!!"
Actions over time have lead me to believe that you do not want to happily take directions from anyone other than the dynamic duo so, no, I am not going to ask.
2018 Angie doesn't need that kind of negativity in her life. To quote the internet sensation Sweet Brown, "Ain't nobody got time for that!!!"
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